Saturday, October 27, 2007

No return...


‘The Fountain of Youth is found deep within each one of us’

-The Puppet Master

When was the last time you sat by yourself and said ‘I wish I was young again’. Or when was the last time you told someone ‘Wish I was half my age knowing what I now know’. If you haven’t said it in a long time is most likely because you’ve been too busy to even think about it, but when a single second of respite appears these thoughts come back, as if there was nothing else more important to think about.

The longing of our past youth shows partly regret at our current situation. Who were we when we were 17? We were just an immature version of ourselves. That said we don’t have to long for that ‘lost self’, we ARE that same person and we can do most things just as we did.

You can still laugh at stupid things…

You can still relax and watch movies till the morning…

You can still speak countless hours on the phone…

You can still live life to its fullest…

…intelligently

…wisely

So take an hour to go to that coffee place where you sit down and relax and invite yourself on a date. Invite your old self. Just sit there and relax, not with a newspaper at hand, not with a laptop, not with work stuff. Get your favorite flavor poured and just talk to yourself. Talk about all those things you not just ‘would like to do’, tell yourself those things you ‘will do’ and you will discover you have a chance to be happy and achieve those things you have always dreamed of.

When the date ends, say goodbye to that child you left behind and long for, and say hello to a newer, complete you.

Lesson learned: ‘Others can only bring temporary happiness to our lives, for true happiness must be achieved by our own effort’

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

I haven't invited myself on a coffee date (to avoid the awkwardness of who has to pay). But I have stepped back into my old shoes by looking at photos and old writings. Wow, what a journey. And I treasure the growth that I've picked up on the way.

It'd be awesome to meet your younger self too, Puppet Master. I'll bet you've always had profound insights and relatable ways of communicating them.

Solid blog, thanks. When we celebrate how far we've come, we generate hope for how much farther we can go.